Tuesday 8 November 2016

Ashley Treatment

Although based on a blog, this site is meant to be read starting from the top. It contains comments and opinions based directly on the slide produced by Ashley's father as a justification for the treatment given to his daughter.

Introduction to the Ashley Treatment

October 18, 2009 by Single Dad   

From Wikipedia (and there are many other sources) …

The Ashley Treatment refers to a controversial set of medical procedures undergone by a Seattle child, “Ashley X”. Ashley, born in 1997, has severe developmental disabilities due to static encephalopathy of unknown etiology; she is, and will remain, at an infant level mentally and physically. 

The treatment included growth attenuation via estrogen therapy; hysterectomy, bilateral breast bud removal, and appendectomy; see a one slide summary of 

Ashley’s condition, the treatment and its benefits as prepared by her parents.

The principal purpose of the treatment was to improve Ashley’s quality of life by limiting her growth in size, eliminating menstrual cramps and bleeding, and preventing discomfort from large breasts. The combination of the surgery and the estrogen therapy attracted much public comment and ethical analysis in early 2007, both supportive and condemning. The hospital later admitted that the surgery was illegal and should only have been performed after a court order, a position that is disagreed upon by the attorney of Ashley’s family.

Sunday 5 June 2016

Beste Ian

Dankie vir Sondag. Dankie dat jy my kom kry het.

Die blote feit dat ek met jou kon praat, het baie lig in my kop ingebring (soos wat ek toe nodig gehad het). Dat jy uitgereik het en my gehoor het. Dis nie maklik om te sê wat ek gesê het nie. Feit bly ek praat basies met niemand oor daai goed van my nie. Ek het niemand om dit mee te praat nie. Ek kan dit nie sommer net praat nie. Hou dit terug want almal het hulle challenges, en wat maak myne dan nou so spesiaal? (alhoewel objektief gesien besef ek my omstandighede - soos baie mense s'n - is eintlik iets waaroor tot die Here hartseer is).

Feit bly ook staan dat mense wil hê dat mens (altyd) sal sterk staan ten spyte van wat ookal? Om sterk te staan is n bewys van hoe gelowig ons is? Dit is vir my problematies. Ek is net ‘n ou van vlees en bloed wat (ook) swaar dra (my swaardra is my swaardra - niks minder en niks meer nie). En ja ek sal soms voel om te vou. Enige ou sal soms vou van swaardra. Wat ek elke dag dra - dra ek. Ek het genade met myself. 

As mens se dra jou geisoleerd maak dan val mens soms uit die werklikheid uit. Ek val soms uit die werklikheid uit. Ek is baie meer geisoleerd as wat ek graag sou wou wees. Ons is geisoleerd, en ek pas in met my gesin se isolasie (ek werk daaraan om dit te verander). Ek moet my valle teëwerk!  

Bottom line. Ek het meestal (soos ons almal), net ‘n behoefte dat iemand nou en dan sal incheck met my of ek darem nog regop staan? Dis al. Jy het dit Sondag gedoen. Dankie daarvoor.

Ek waardeer jou baie. Dankie dat jy omgee.

Ek gaan kyk of ek vanaand betyds uit die vergadering kom om by julle in te pop. Ek mis julle almal.

Groete


Pieter